The Post-Erasmus-Depression (dip)

When it all begun…

Going on an Erasmus adventure in Kiljava has been a great experience for all of us. We had the opportunities to experience the Finnish culture and to meet new people from all over Europe. We now know for sure that we will miss the Finnish traditions, such as eating cinnamon breads or going to the sauna totally naked on daily basis. A lot of our Erasmus students went first to our private gym or private swimming pool, to go chilling after that in the sauna. Your body feels totally great when you do that!

During our Erasmus programme, we had the opportunity to travel a lot. We travelled in Finland to Lapland and to neighbour countries, such as Russia and Estonia. We saw the northern lights, as well in Lapland as in Kiljava on our own roof! We could experience the joy of nature in our ‘garden’. It was a privilege for us that we could go walking around the lake, into the woods or on the beach at the moments that we wanted. But the best experience that we had this semester was that we made friends for the rest of our lives.

Of course, going on Erasmus has also a difficult part. At the end of the programme, we have to say goodbye to everyone and to the environment and we must go back home. These weeks are now our last few weeks, so after three months of Erasmus, we are making ourselves ready to go home again. The flights are already booked and the last days of school will start next week. After our last week of school, we will go back to our earlier life, which will feel very strange in the beginning. We will all go back to our families and back to our home countries and we have to leave our new life and our new friends behind. We must go back to reality. Going back to reality will not be easy and can cause a few problems, such as an Erasmus dip. But no worries, we provided a few solutions for these problems!!

The first thing that you should definitely do, is keep in touch with all your Erasmus friends. Just because you can’t walk into each other’s rooms or go to the gym or sauna together, doesn’t mean that you can’t stay in contact with each other. You can use all kinds of communication for this: Facebook chat, Skype, WhatsApp or even letters.

The second solution for the Erasmus dip is bringing your Erasmus memories back to your home country. You can for example put pictures or postcards from your favourite places in your room. Looking at this pictures and postcards will give you some happy moments during the lonely days.

The third solution is travelling. You have friends now from all over Europe! That’s a great chance for you to travel and to meet your friends’ hometowns. You can also invite your new friends in your own city and host them!

The next solution to get rid of your Erasmus dip is getting a new tattoo! Five out of twelve people here in Kiljava Opisto already have an Erasmus tattoo. This is a lifetime reminder on the wonderful time you’ve had during your Erasmus adventure. These tattoos are also nice to show each other when you planned your next reunion!

Next, you have to remember that you can always go back to the place where it all begun. Come back to Helsinki and to Kiljava Opisto, with your friends or alone, and experience the adventure all over again. You are now an expert in the Finnish culture and your friends will love to be guided in your ‘hometown’.

Our last solution is talking with people back home. Of course, you will feel lonely the first few days or the first few weeks, but when you tell all of your Erasmus stories to your friends back home, you can experience the best moments again. This is surely also a win-win-situation, because they will definitely hear all of your experiences!

As we already told you, the first weeks will be hard and difficult. Don’t be sad when you experience these difficulties. Think about the perfect moments that you experienced, the beautiful sunsets that you saw and the best friends that you made and you will feel soon happy again! We will miss you, but we will also meet again soon!

Enjoying our last weeks of Erasmus.

Lots of love and big kisses, Mieke and Tessy!

 

Trip to St Petersburg, Russia

26/04/2017 – 1/05/2017

Everybody got their passport? Check. Charger? Check. Phone? Check.

Finally the day had arrived that we could leave to St Petersburg, Russia. A trip we booked months ago with almost our whole Erasmus group. Everybody was so excited. And of course we where! Let’s go to Russia!

Like always when we book trips, first the bus to Helsinki. Right on schedule we arrived in Kamppi. Let’s make a last stop to buy some food and drinks for on the boat and change some money in to rubles. After a walk to the port and a search to the timetravel desk we get our boarding passes.  Finally we can enter our boat. Not just a normal ferry, a real cruise ship it is!

First thing we do is looking for our cabin. Way smaller than we expected, but clean and cosy. Just the way we like it! A bigger disappointment was hiding behind the curtains… no window, just a grey wall. We met our cabin mates and got installed. New friends from Denmark, check! Let’s go and see what else the boat got to offer. Found some restaurants and bars, a casino, duty free shop and went on deck. After we ate something, we changed, bought some drinks and are ready for the first (club)night on the boat!

The evening started with a dance show from Russian girls. Not something that we are used to, but so much fun to watch! Making friends on this student trip was not so hard. During the show we got to know some German and Italian guys. Let’s say this night was a bid shaky, but let’s blame that on the restless Gulf of Finland.

The next day we could enter Russia in the afternoon. We were a bid stressed about crossing the border, but after some time we all could enter Russia. What a relief! During the bus trip we got some information about the city and made some stops. After this, time to go to the hostel and prepare for the night cruise on rivers and canals.

After a hangover day and a lot of traveling, we were not so excited for again an excursion on a boat. Once we arrived it was whole different then we expected. Loud music, cruising on the canals and rivers and free cava, not at all what we expected! Very cold but so much fun on this trip. We saw St Petersburg from a whole different angle and the right company made it perfect.

The alarm clock rings very early this morning. Finding breakfast on the street is not that hard. The only thing is that you don’t know what you will eat or what it will cost. Nobody speaks English and they think that once you enter Russia, you must speak the language. Grumpy Russians is a good way to describe them. But, nothing to worry! We found food and are ready for our guided tour to the impressive Catherine’s palace. This palace is a 300m long place that shouts wealth! It’s an amazing and impressive place.

During the afternoon we got some free time and we went to the main street to drink some coffee. One good tip to survive St Petersburg, don’t ever cross a road if the light is red. The Russian traffic is just crazy! Chaotic, busy, dangerous and loud!

This evening we are going to get the whole Russian experience. Traditional evening, food, music and a whole show. Our expectations are high. Russian evening, Russian rules. Before the first meal you should take a shot of vodka. It open’s you stomach and makes it easier to eat more. Who are we to break Russian rules? First shot and meal are done. Second rule: The second shot has to follow fast after the first one. Okay, if they say so! After some shots and meals, the show could really start! Some musicians made our whole evening complete! After the dinner, Dimitri (our timetravel guide) assured us that in five years time, we where the most amusing group! Thumbs up for us! After dinner, we went to an underground strip club to go clubbing. The night was complete!

The next day was one without our new friends. They left to Moscow and we went to the Hermitage Museum. Biggest museum from the world and you could spend 8 years here.  For us, a couple of hours was just enough! Afterward we went to the Cathedrals of St Petersburg. Very cold and so much rain was not so nice, but again so much impressive things we saw!

Last day in Russia, packing our luggage and let’s go to the ship again. This trip is almost over, luckily, we have one last night on the boat remaining. Time to say goodbye to our guides and thank them for the wonderful trip! One thing is sure, we will come back!

Tomorrow we have to leave the boat at 7. That doesn’t stop us from making it a good last night! Again a show and some clubbing. We even met the captain of the boat and made some pictures with him. This night, and the whole trip where just perfect! This time, we must say goodbye to our new friends from Germany and Italy. Let’s hope to see them again…

Very tired and hangover we take the bus back to Kiljava, to home. Not so many weeks left before we all have to go home… Let’s make it a last good month!

A little aftermovie to give a better image of the whole trip!

Russian kisses,

Laura Schepers, Kiana Doms